My daughter, Ronica passed away last year on the 27th July, 2024….
She was only 35 years old, energetic, loved life more than herself, and a child of God.
Three weeks before she passed on, she went in for a Historektomie, however she had no kids, and that was a big dream for her, she had endometriosis and the gini said that was her only option.
She went in to theater, and as soon as she was put under, the gyni, discovered this big tumor, and stop the operation. 💔
I was called by my son in law, asking g me to sit as he has bad news. After telling me what happened and that the Dr called out of theater, I had to be strong for them both. My heart teared in to pieces, as I did not know what kind of cancer. When Ronica woke up after the anesthetic worked out, she found out that they did not operate, immediately she called me,” mom, what’s wrong with me, why did they not operate”
This mother heart broken, but had to be strong for her. I said im not sure she must wait till the Dr comes around.
5 min later she called again and said mom you know, please tell me!😪😪
Me as mother had to tell my daughter over the phone that she had cancer and that they will do more tests on her.
We were now in two different Provinces, so I had to arrange to fly ASAP to her, as she said, “mom,I need you, please come.”
We gladly got tickets on the plane for the next morning.
After the test ,MRI was done, they discovered that the cancer spread to various parts of her body, and daily another part was infected by the terrible C!
She was heartbroken, but still believed that God can heel her, if it’s not her time. Me and her siblings spend 3 weeks with her in hospital, and I was so grateful that the oncologist gave permission that I can sleep with her in her room, be there 24/7.
They could not start chemo or radiation as she was to week and had numerous blood clots in her lungs, that was also full of cancer. With all of this, she kept positive and always smiled! However our wishes and what we want, if it is not God’s plan, we need to accept it, even if your heart breaks in thousand pieces.💔💔
On the 27th July 2024, in the morning she walked her last walk in the hospital room, climb into her hospital bed, and went into a coma…
1 o clock that afternoon, at 13h00, THE ANGLES CAME AND SHE LEFT OUR WORLD TO HEAVEN. 🙏💔😪
We spend a page for her on fb: memories Van ons dogter Ronica, as even if she is not with us anymore, we will always treasure her memories in our hearts.♥️♥️
